Want To End Premature Ejaculation? Change Positions!

November 19th, 2009 | by admin |

So to answer our question, it may be said that the average couple uses at least two positions while having sex, while a relatively lesser number of couples use only one, and here lies the problem.

To put it very simply, the more positions you use, the greater the chance to end premature ejaculation. So bring out all those guides to good sex and sexual performance manuals and read up on the various positions that you can use while having sex.

Anita Hughes* of Boise, Idaho, is a 34-year-old homemaker with three children whose husband Keith appeared to have developed a premature ejaculation problem. “Keith has a high-pressure financial job and I am stressed out looking after the home and kids, so we certainly no longer have sex as often as we used to,” says Anita. “And because of the long gaps between our sex sessions, Keith started ejaculating too soon, as early as two or three minutes into foreplay.”

The Hughes’ then consulted a psychotherapist thinking Keith’s high-tension job may also have had an effect on his performance. “She agreed with that, but also suggested we use various sexual positions to find out which one suited us best and which helped Keith hold back as long as he could,” says Anita. “And her advice worked like a shot, because Keith was able to end premature ejaculation in a matter of days.”

Theirs is not the only success story. Today, given the immensely stressful lives that we lead, sexual anxiety is only part of a larger apprehension about life, jobs, money, kids, and various other factors. So more and more men these days find themselves seeking help for sexual performance-related problems that their forefathers could ever have imagined.

Sam Harvey is a psychotherapist with long years of sexual counseling behind him. “People are always surprised when I tell them that sexual positions offer more than just physical pleasure; they are actually tools to cure various sexual problems, ranging from premature ejaculation to sexual boredom,” he says.

But that should not really come as a surprise, if you think about it. The very nature of the sexual act is such that it is based on the use of certain positions. As mankind has evolved, we have devised variations of the basic sexual position to heighten our enjoyment. However, it is increasingly obvious that these positions also physically influence the outcome of a sexual session and may actually help a man end premature ejaculation, because they are mostly linked to how the man performs and how satisfied his partner is in the end.

Obviously, there is no single position that will suit everybody, but the general idea is to choose a position that will cause the least stress on your limbs, for instance, because any kind of physical discomfort during sex invariably leads to premature ejaculation as the body seeks release from the awkward position it is in. This applies, surprise, surprise, to the missionary position too. Think about it: a man is essentially using his arms and legs to prop himself up, so that they start stiffening in a short time, and thrusting at the same time: a perfect recipe for premature ejaculation.

A better idea would be try the ‘woman on top’ scenario, despite any ego hassles you might have with her controlling the sexual action. This is simply a more effective way to end premature ejaculation because it leaves you in a far less stressful position.

So remember: a change of positions can work wonders. Why not try tonight?

Simon Chan
http://www.articlesbase.com/sexuality-articles/want-to-end-premature-ejaculation-change-positions-70406.html

  1. 25 Responses to “Want To End Premature Ejaculation? Change Positions!”

  2. By raggyann on Nov 19, 2009 | Reply

    premature ejaculation?
    selfish or a real problem? I think that guys should try harder not to cum to soon, it is very annoying, nothing worse than climbing on top and a mintute later u have to slow down, stop or change positions.
    thequiteone – u call me a slappa for talking about sex? Hmmphh u probably all hating cos u dont have the social skills or looks to get laid, -good luck with that. are you a premmer by anychance?
    i dont mind so much if it is genuine, but It annoys me, when they only last a few minutes, have a short rest and go again again, but in total the sex for me is not that long cos obviously there has been a short break. I think them men should make more of an effort to last about 20 mins, and then go again again.

    I come easy during foreplay, but it takes me a longer time to come thro intercourse. i just think that the men dont try hard enough to satisfy me. it seems unfair when they come a few times and i only manage once or twice.
    my last boyf who had a pencil dick as well as PE told me it was cos i was very tight lol. I guess there is hope for me after i have given birth ha ha.

  3. By nygurly74 on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    It’s a real problem, a form of impotence which statistics say every man has or will expirience at some time in his life.
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  4. By Miss Smith on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    Who is the selfish one here?
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  5. By Froggy on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    Would you prefer that he can’t get excited by you at all?
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  6. By SaidFred on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    some men can make up to 5 rounds… change your partner!
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  7. By C2C on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    help your guy out and coach him in this area! maybe you’re just that good. just be more patient with him and that should extend your round(s).
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  8. By JONATHAN B on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    for years i have been trying to perform the art of premature ejaculation now i think i got it down to a least 25 seconds. mainly so i can go to sleep or have a smoke lol
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  9. By replexgirl on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    Why don’t you try for round 2? Or if that takes the fun out of it for you, then let him take care of himself before he is ready for you. I don’t think it’s selfish, I’m sure if he could control it, he would….he’s probably very embarrassed.
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  10. By IncoStress on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    with some its a real problem, prostate problems can cause this also. You will know he’s selfish if when all is done you are put to one side ’so to speak’. Then the solution to that is talk about it, and if that doesn’t help maybe the relationship isn’t right for you or him.
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  11. By thequietone2005 on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    you sound like a bit of a slappa to me sweetheart
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  12. By catwoman on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    It is a real problem. Nasal delivery technology is supposed to work. I feel ya sista. If they can try not to touch themselves for a while and have more regular sex, they can be trained. Good luck.
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  13. By Karl on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    Contemplate on foreplay, and oral stuff, encourage your guy on the repetitive rather than the negatives! My lucky GF normally comes a least thrice or more during our orals, thats well before penetrating, just my d**k knocking on her ‘heaven door’ causes her to ‘tsunami’….Learn to synchronise and you’d enjoy….
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  14. By x♥HunI♥x on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    Aww bless the best thing to do to try and solve this problem is to actually gently but firmly pull his balls downwards. it will stop him coming so fast. Or just stop if he feels he is close and let him give you oral. if you love him though you can just laugh with him about it, it’s not the most important thing!
    lol good luck and have fun!
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  15. By poorguy on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    you’re too sexy for him that he can’t control himself to ejaculate too soon. The 2nd around is much more longer for him to ejaculate. The 3rd is much better and so forth, depends on his energy.
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  16. By cavetroy on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    Try some foreplay, and have some sexy fun, you sound like a sack of potatoes, if so you’ll always be the annoying selfish one.
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  17. By skullian on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    For some men it is a real problem, if the penis is ultra sensitive to stimulation the slightest thing can make it go off! some men don’t even get as far as penetration before they spurt, try pinching it at the base between two fingers that can delay the inevitable for a while, also after he’s come for the first time, give him a few minutes & try a bit of oral stimulation to get him going again, second time round should last a bit longer!
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  18. By simple g on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    if u want informatin about premature ejaculation
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  19. By PATRICK M on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    have you ever thought that you might just be so hot!! in bed that the poor sod cant help it. strap a photo of he’s mom on your tits……that should slow things down a bit.
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  20. By likimainukuferotengangeavakivaki on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    It happens to men once or a few times in their lives. Its annoying to female partners and its unexpected and embarrassing also to the man but its not always the mans fault. The fact that he arrives at climax much earlier than you doesn’t mean he’s selfish, unless of course if he’s not bothered by it at all. He’s probably all stimulated by your feel and touch and his potential is rapidly peaked. You have to understand him, give him a few minutes or more and let him try again. The subsequent sessions will usually be much longer. Take your time, don’t rush.
    A simple training technique which helps(but not always) is to try masturbating him and then let go before he comes(don’t let him come), then continue until he’s almost there then let go again without letting him release. Keep repeating this for as long as you can manage then let him have you. Do this as often as possible. Happy love-making!
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  21. By doctorlickie_69 on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    mintute is spelled minute.
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  22. By super.wisdom on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    yeah i hate that it makes me angry and makes me feel like if i been treated like some sort of slu t…
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  23. By lans66 on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    You just described 99% of men on the planet. Here is the solution. Dont let him stop when he has an orgasam, just keep going. He will stay hard, and the next one will take ALOT longer to get there. If that isnt long enough for you, keep him going again. I guarantee #3 will be a long time comming. Remamber, this only works if the action doesnt stop or even slow down during and after his orgasim.
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  24. By john h on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    Sweetheart, it is really different for all men, some can perform intercourse for up to twenty minutes before they ejaculate, probably the majority of men last up to five to seven minutes before ejaculation.

    That is why foreplay is so impotent, if you need multiple orgasms then your partner must caress your gene ital area with fingers to achieve also performing oral sex while caressing your g Spot will help achieve a climax several times
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  25. By leowin1948 on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    PE is a psychological problem in 99 percent cases.Anxiety,lack of confidence,ignorance etc are reasons.If you read Casanova or see porno video,you will think that sex lasts for hours.It is all editted shows.Real sex lasts only few minutes,2 to 7 minutes,the average being 3 minutes.If you think that you have no capacity to satisfy woman,you are finished.Best thing to prevent PE is having confidence.Even size of penis does not matter.If you want to improve time you dont RUSH,be slow initially and incease speed and impact gradually.Keep mind pre occupied(chewing gum good).Oil or gelly will help to some extent.Kegel exercise is another solution.The herbal tablets(formulation) CONFIDO (Himalaya Pharmaceuticals) may be helpful.
    PE the maximum complaint of men all over the world.
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  26. By cyberingcam on Nov 20, 2009 | Reply

    Men can control their ejaculation to certain extend.. but they dont have full control…

    I thing ther probelm when u have sex is u go too fast & make him ejaculate…
    Take it slow baby.. its not a sports car…that goes vrooom…

    Anyway if u man ejacutaed to fast… tell me not to be selfish & make u orgasm thru oral .. & maybe go for another round after some time…when he gets his penis up and running…
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    Good luck

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