Comments on: Men Secret Health Issues – Part V

By: xmummyloulou21x

xmummyloulou21x — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 12:07:59 +0000

i dont admit that i like sex – but i do! god the other night i couldnt get enough of my partner!!! but when its over im like well i didnt enjoy it! i dont think its woman like to admit it!!! i feel like a sl*g if you like, because of the way i have been bought up! ive been told sex is nasty and you shouldnt do it unless you wanna have a baby!! so i always think its wrong now! when its not! and so im not an open book about it!

my mum told me the other week me and my partner shouldnt be sleeping togethr (this was after she found a condom in my room)

im 21 – 22 very soon!!
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By: mike h

mike h — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 12:05:59 +0000

It is only because society says it is wrong. (mainly due to religion.) For example, in Roman and ancient Egyptian times, homosexuality was perfectly acceptable. As was marrying as many wives as you wanted and keeping a Harem in other cultures. Marrying girls as young as thirteen was acceptable in England in the middle ages, and is still acceptable now in other countries. But at some point, haven't all these been called perverted by modern British culture? I'm not saying they are or aren't, I'm just saying perversion differs from culture to culture, time to time.
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By: Delicious

Delicious — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 12:03:59 +0000

NO everyone is not secretly a perv, in fact, I have never encountered so many prudes in my entire life as I have here on this forum.
Yes, Y!A is a forum available to minors so we should be mindful of those tender lil ears.
However, I feel that the word PERV gets tossed around here way to literally, and I would never take offense to it.
Some people do indeed, cross the boundaries here, and do appear to have perverted tendencies, but I see people who ask anything even remotely sexual, being labled a perv.
Mostly, I’ve noticed that its the immature "girls" that use this as a catch all word. It seems to make them feel good to lable someone a perv.
I just really wish Y!A could find a viable way to create an adult only category, and all questions of such nature would be auto screened to that forum. THEN…people who misuse the word perv would be given violation notices, or dumb@ss rewards or something equivalent for being so immature!
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By: Deirdre O

Deirdre O — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 12:01:59 +0000

I don't find thinking of sex as perverted in the least, as this is a natural biological sensation. When you harm others in the process you have crossed the line. I find it wrong if you involve children and those people should be incarcerated and kept apart from the rest of society. As adults it is our moral responsibility to protect children from any type of exploitation. One should stay clear of animals as well as that is nasty and kinky.
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By: GoodQuestion

GoodQuestion — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 11:59:59 +0000

Fact: children are present that have the right to their childhood. Please have some consideration for that. Are we on the same page adult to adult or not?

You might even have had a post or two from the younger generation asking you to stop it in their own way.

If you were in a truly loving relationship you would understand that the subject of sex is something special between two that have become one for a reason – it’s not lust or an experiment. When you find that special someone it is a bond that requires no question to family etc and yes, I think many would agree that it is private because of the issue of the bond. ~~~Live blessed friend
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By: Alvinneo Sesshoumaru

Alvinneo Sesshoumaru — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 11:56:59 +0000

I see,you are very open.But you are no pervert.

-noun.pervert
1.A person whose behaviour deviates from what is acceptable especially in sexual behaviour
-verb.pervert
1.Corrupt morally or by intemperance or sensuality
2.Practice sophistry; change the meaning of or be vague about in order to mislead or deceive
3.Change the inherent purpose or function of something

we wouldnt know…but not your actions on Yahoo Answer
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By: Neil M

Neil M — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 11:54:59 +0000

Yes sex is part of nature, but by asking about it you are being seen as trying to get women to talk about sex, which might give you some sexual gratification, they might think.
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By: Stella S

Stella S — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 11:52:59 +0000

I’ve often been told that I’m ’sick’ or that I ‘need help’.
Then again, I’m female and females have always been punished by society for being uninhibited sexually.
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By: andrei a

andrei a — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 11:50:59 +0000

by calling other people pervs people ussualy deny themselves…by calling someone else a perv you divert the attension from yourself, people are sexual beeings but society made rules thus denying our liberty to be pervs…(you are free to be a perv but most people wont say there pervs because they are scared of society and what it will think) as diderot said some of us will be scared at the littlest dirty thought they have and will gladly say somthing worse to cover the shame of a statement that doesnt please society
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By: bustup

bustup — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 11:48:59 +0000

This is the place to ask questions

and EVERY one is a perv to some degree

as long as it is appropriate to the forum you are on

you will note from some of the answers that thare are lots of underage ones here, either that or they have not matured mentally

real pervs are like the puritans who say that sex is a sin, the command to original pair on earth was to be fruitful and fill the earth, that meant intercourse and babies
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